I want to play with Grownups Again.

A statement that resonated deeply with me, and I love it. It is a good question and one that needs to be pondered. I thank my co-host, Chris, from Think Big Code Small Podcast, who shared it with me.

• When did the world become adult children?
• When professionalism was a trait adorned, respect was the norm, not the exception.

I find myself in a playground where the swings of courtesy have rusted, the slide of responsibility has crumbled, and the sandbox of maturity is now a pit of pettiness.

— and I think I see cat shit in the corners!

Where is the world that was once revered for constructive discussions? We now see a world of finger-pointing and a battlefield of blame games.

Do you remember the phrase “Act your Age?”

An expression aimed at encouraging individuals to behave in a manner deemed appropriate for their chronological age. It carries many societal expectations, norms, and standards about how individuals should conduct themselves based on their age.

In a world where a contagion of childishness plagues adulthood. The world needs a good slap on the ass and maybe 30 minutes in the corner to think about what they have done!

> A Time-out of sorts!

Disagreement is a hallmark of learning. Stop taking everything so personally; no one is actually attacking you, and if you stop, listen, and interact maturely, you might learn something.

Let’s be clear: it is okay to disagree with someone and still like them. Disagreement is often seen as a catalyst for discord, but when navigated wisely, it can serve as a powerful engine for personal and collective growth. No one is actually attacking you!

Let’s Be Clear

• Disagreement is a hallmark of learning.
• Respect is at the core of the ability to disagree yet maintain a positive relationship.
• Disagreements are a natural outcome of diversity of thought, which is a critical ingredient for innovation and problem-solving.
• Every disagreement holds within it a potential lesson. It prompts individuals to re-evaluate their beliefs, to delve deeper into the subject matter, and to broaden their horizons.
• Disagreements can pave the way for constructive dialogue.
• Paradoxically, disagreements, when handled respectfully, can strengthen relationships.
• Engaging in disagreements with an open mind and a willingness to learn can lead to personal growth.

We all need grown-ups who embody the essence of maturity and lead by example. The journey from the playground’s petty squabbles to the hallowed halls of meaningful dialogue and collaborative problem-solving starts with a single step – a step towards self-awareness and acting our age.

I want to play with grownups again, engage in enriching discourse, and exchange ideas with individuals who embody respect, responsibility, and a readiness to lead with maturity.

The playground is vast, but let’s not forget, it was built for the grownups to guide, not to partake in the childish skirmish.